Mediation can be a great way to resume contact and continue the important relationships that you have built up with your grandchildren.
What is mediation?
This process would include an impartial and qualified third party that would help you as grandparents communicate with the parent(s)/ guardian to come to a solution that everyone is comfortable with. These mediators are skilled at helping people resolve issues. This process could help you decide how and when you may have access to your grandchildren. This method can make the situation less stressful. You will be able to stay in control and have the chance to explain your side without interruption and what resolution you are looking for, rather than this power being given to a Court that can make decisions that have lasting impacts on your family.
What would mediation include?
This would include all the parties meeting on neutral territory to communicate. This also tends to be a less expensive option when compared to going to Court. Mediation can also result in the issue being solved quickly, allowing parents; grandparents; and the children to carry on with their lives.
The mediator’s role would be to gather all the information and facilitate a discussion. They would then help you develop options and solutions, hopefully getting the parties to agree to one of these. Due to mediators being experienced with similar matters, they can outline the benefits and drawbacks of each option, helping you agree to the best solution for you and your family.
You have to attend a mediation meeting (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) before going to Court and so it is therefore worthwhile, going through this process as it may prove to be successful and save you time and expense as a result. However, there are exceptions to attending this MIAM in certain situations, for example, in instances of domestic abuse.
Where to find a mediator:
Lestons would be delighted to act for you in this regard, alternatively, you may wish to contact the National Family Mediators Association.
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